A Letter to the Mamas

October 14, 2023 Olivia Sweeney

A letter to you, mama

I see you. I see you up late at night after the dishes and laundry are done, wondering if now is the right time to do motherhood or family photos, and closing your Instagram and Facebook, vowing that someday, you will do portraits. You grace in the mirror and remember that you wanted to lose ten pounds, and where did all those grey hairs come from? You sigh and promise that eventually, the time will be right.

I want to express something that’s been on my mind, something that as a photographer, I believe is of great importance. Now is the time, mom. The photos, the beautiful snapshots of your life, your memories, and your family? It’s time to get in the photos, just the way you are. First, please know that you are truly beautiful the way you are, and your presence in the life of your family or your children is a special gift. You are warm, loving, and your laughter is what makes your family so special. It’s not about perfection or importance, but about giving your children a tangible memory that includes you.

For many of us moms, we are not the same size we were when we got married or even early on in our motherhood. Maybe your weight has fluctuated up or down, and either one can create insecurities about the way we look. Please hear me when I say that those perceived flaws do not matter to the people who love you. The “imperfections” make you uniquely you, and they are part of what makes you unique. Embrace the smile likes, a few grey hairs, and yes, even a few pounds, because they are a testament to a life well-lived. They represent Friday night pizza nights or the inside jokes that make you belly laugh. Those are the things your children will remember.

Another reason that so many clients put off photos is because their children are little. Since I’m still in the season of little ones, I understand how hard it can be to wrangle infants and toddlers (and get them into coordinated outfits!), but time has a way of slipping through our fingers. Our kids are growing faster than we can believe. Yes, family photos can be a but of work for the primary parent (we see the mental load!), but they also can be a beautiful tradition and memory that can bring your family closer together. Children do well with routines, and using the same photographer or doing family photos each year can help familiarize them with the idea!

Mama, I encourage you to step in front of the camera with confidence and love, because it's your presence that completes your family photos. Remember, these pictures are a legacy for your children and their children, a testament to the love and happiness you've shared. I want you to see yourself as the beautiful, strong, wild, amazing person I see, and it’s why I love what I do! Your presence in those pictures will be a gift that keeps on giving, a timeless reminder of your love and importance. I promise.

Love,

Olivia

What Goes into Choosing a Senior Photographer?

September 20, 2023 Olivia Sweeney

Here in Southern Oregon, we are lucky enough to have so many incredible artists in our midst. I know you have tremendous options for senior photos (many are my friends, and I believe a rising tide lifts all boats!). If you’re here on my site, it means you are searching for the right photographer to document this beautiful moment in your life, and I’m so honored you’re considering me. As you consider this decision, here are a few things to note about the process:

Start early: It’s never too early to begin your search for a senior photographer. Some students even start looking around in freshman year! But the best time is about a year before you plan to do your senior photos (although if I have space, I do book much closer to graduation than that). You need to do your research by exploring their portfolio, reviews, and deciding if their vision matches up with yours. Look at editing styles and consider your individual needs!

Set your budget and inquire about extra fees: Sometimes photographers require a minimum purchase when it comes to products, and you want to budget appropriately. Ask about the true costs, and ask to include any requirements of prints or products. That way, there are no surprises and you can feel confident about what you’re going to be receiving and investing in. By booking early, you also allow yourself enough time to save up and splurge on the photographer you really want. You will never regret choosing the one you have your heart set on.

Ask friends and family: While choosing a senior photographer is deeply personal, it is helpful to hear from others about ones they loved/didn’t have a good experience with. You can ask around, and also review Facebook and Google reviews to get a good picture of the experience that a photographer offers. Look for someone with lots of experience and a wide breadth of work (which you can see in a portfolio or blog) that represents fully their style. Prepare also for people who may try to steer your decision one way or another once you’ve made up your mind, and know that it’s okay to politely thank them and follow your heart with the photographer that you know will bring your vision to life.

Review availability and scheduling: It seems obvious, but it’s important to check with a photographer before choosing them to ensure your ideal timeline is available. Some photographers take long chunks of time off during the holidays or other times of the year, and you want to know this early on to prepare. It is also helpful to discuss locations with the person you are considering. If they are only offering indoor sessions or one location, you want to be sure it fits with the idea you have.

Nail down the details: There are many details to need to be addressed when you book a senior photographer, but some include: Editing and delivery (How long will your images take? When will you get them back? What is included?), reviewing packages and prices (What is included, and what is the required purchase amount? When is a deposit due?), and discussing wardrobe and any props you may want to include.

Lastly and most importantly, trust yourself. Of course, include your parent or guardian in this important process, but trust the way a photographer makes you feel and look for someone who makes you feel both confident and listened-to. Those values will reflect in your images and bring you the best senior photos you can imagine! If you decide my natural light, breezy portraiture style is just what you’re looking for, please reach out. I can’t wait to meet you!